If you’re in a relationship with a narcissist, I’m sorry for you. It can be hard to come to grips that the person you are dealing with is completely delusional, but there are a few ways to be sure (although a narcissist will say that the victim is doing this, although the evidence won’t support it): Threatens the relationship often, even for no reason. My girlfriend had … read more

I’ve come to the unfortunate realization that we truly were complete opposites in every way that mattered. I saw everything through a positive lens, while she saw everything through a negative lens. I looked at reality of what’s in front of me, she looked at fantasy she made up in her head. I twisted bad things into good things, while she twisted good things into bad things. … read more

The phone incident was the moment I should have realized who I was dealing with. But I kept making excuses for her, thinking maybe I was being unreasonable. I wasn’t. I was living in Poland and my girlfriend was Polish. An event had occurred that I needed to access my bank on my new phone urgently, and to do this I needed to contact the bank, who … read more

The last three words I said after this, was “with no soul”. As she walked away angry for no good reason, she probably felt these words cut deeply and proved that I was the abusive one. But I had a huge arsenal of attacks about her dark past, her appearance, her insecurities, all weapons I could have used against her if I was abusive, but I never … read more

A Guide On Surviving Toxic Abusive Relationships Over the past 7 months I was in a highly emotionally abusive, toxic relationship, that had me questioning my own sanity. After extensive documentation, chat transcripts analyzed by AI, therapist confirmations, and intensive introspection, I came to the stark realization that it was not me, but her that was the toxic abuser. This is a story of drama, romance, manipulation, … read more